I’ve commented before on the way my children with AD/HD don’t have an internal sense of time passing. If they are doing something they enjoy, they just live in the moment and don’t realize how much time has actually passed until someone points it out to them or they look at a clock. If they are doing something that is less preferred (like spelling, math, etc.!) they are unable to sense how much time it will take and therefore believe they will be quite old before they complete the task. A couple days ago I remembered something that both Josh and Beckie said to me when they were preschoolers, and it made me think that they were such creative thinkers that they were not restricted to thinking that time always progresses forward. Josh and Beckie are 5 years apart in age, but their thinking patterns and development have been remarkably similar. At some point in their early years, each said to me something to the effect of: “Mom, when I get bigger and you get younger, I’ll teach you.” In their minds, the aging process was fluid, so that I might go in reverse and get younger while they continued to grow older. I’m sure part of that idea was the hope that they could be in charge some day. It’s interesting to me that these remarks were made long after they had developed object permanence and had a general understanding of cause and effect. Josh and Beckie still don’t really have a good sense about time passing and they struggle to get places on time. But they have given up the hope of my becoming younger and leaving them in charge.